Beyond the Diamond: Alternative Gemstones for Your Engagement Ring
- Cara Nicolas
While diamonds have long been the traditional choice for engagement rings and wedding bands, there’s a growing trend towards using other gemstones as the focal point of an engagement ring. And honestly, this is a trend that we LOVE: After all, shouldn’t your wedding set be as special and unique as your relationship?
However, when it comes to jewelry that you’ll be wearing every day, not all gems are created equal. Whatever gemstone you choose should be high quality and tough enough to withstand daily wear, so you can treasure it for years to come.
If you’re looking to break away from the ordinary, there are some stunning alternative engagement ring gems to consider. Let’s dive in!
Sindur’s Recommendations for Alternative Engagement Rings
1. Sapphire
Clocking in at a 9 on the Mohs hardness scale (just below diamonds!), sapphires are known for their durability. This makes them an ideal option for everyday wear.
Even better? Sapphires comes in virtually every color of the rainbow, from classic blue and lush green to brilliant yellow and vivid pink. Sapphires are a great choice for those who want a classic look with a modern twist.
2. Ruby
Rubies are renowned for their intense color; the most valuable rubies have pure, vibrant red to slightly purplish red color. They’re often considered a symbol of passion and love (perfect for an engagement ring!).
And a bonus fun fact: Rubies are the same type of mineral as sapphire (corundum), so they exhibit excellent toughness and can be worn every day without worry.
3. Tourmaline
Like sapphire, tourmaline comes in a wide range of colors—perfect for someone wanting a truly unique engagement ring. This gem ranks at a 7 to 7.5 on the Mohs scale, so while it can hold up to regular wear, you’ll want to avoid knocking it around too much.
What Gems Should I Avoid?
For a ring you’ll be wearing every day, you’ll want to avoid “soft” gems—think opals, moonstones, and pearls—that scratch easily. You should also consider how a gem holds up to water and other everyday materials (lotion, soap, etc.). Emeralds, for instance, are relatively durable but should never be exposed to moisture for extended periods of time.
Other Considerations for Purchasing an Engagement Ring
When choosing a gemstone for your engagement ring, it’s important to consider the following factors:
- Activity level: If you’re an active person or do a lot of work with your hands, you’ll want to choose a gemstone that can withstand some wear and tear.
- Setting: The setting of a gemstone can affect its appearance and durability. Depending on your lifestyle, you should consider different settings that complement the shape and color of the stone while providing adequate protection.
- Personal style: Larger gemstones are more likely to catch on clothing or knock against desks and countertops—so if you want a big and flashy ring, a durable stone should be a top priority.
With a bit of research (and some assistance from a qualified jeweler), it’s easy to create a truly unique and meaningful engagement ring with something other than a diamond. Remember, the most important thing is to choose a stone that you love and that reflects your personal style, so you’ll be proud to wear it every day!